An intoxicating state of being entangled at the heart with another
Have you ever found yourself in the throws of such an intoxicating feeling of connection with another person that you convince yourself that they are the one? Perhaps you met randomly without any expectation of crossing paths with them and you find yourself thinking of all the reasons why you must have been meant to meet.
The feelings that follow are enormous, loud, luscious, bulbous and exceptional compared with the flat, mundane and normal feelings you had yesterday. Its as though your heart is expanding like a balloon, capable of anything, with extraordinary capacity compared to usual. You remark to yourself at how different your world appears to have done an about turn overnight.
“How could this be?” you hear yourself asking? “It must be meant to be!”
From here you determine, likely with the help of the other person feeling and thinking similarly, your fate. You take yourself down future streets, scenarios, possibilities and potentials with this other person in your mind. It happens in the space of a couple of minutes, a supposed innocent day-dream, all the while generating an invisible whirlpool of imbalanced energy. Even if it is not reciprocated by the other person, your imagination can run wild! The dialogue in your own head between different parts of yourself can take on the energy of a frenzied school of piranhas going for a feed!
This is often the point at which you begin to entangle yourself with another person’s energy consciously or unconsciously.
TO FIND OUT IF YOU HAVE ENTANGLED YOURSELF WITH ANOTHER, TAKE THIS QUICK QUIZ
- Do you feel unable to stop, desperate for more of the emotional connection?
- Have you started to sacrifice things you normally wouldn’t to get the attention of the other person?
- Are you experiencing overwhelm or confusion, an intense feeling like never before as though you’re drunk without having consumed any alcohol?
- Do you feel distracted or like you’re juggling more balls in the air than usual?
- Have you packed up your life in your head fast and completely changed its direction?
After a few hours, days or weeks you notice how you struggle to stay happy or satisfied, interested or focused without making contact with them, albeit in your imagination, in person or in bed with them! You start to become dependant on the hit of the hookup or exchange and filter out who they really are and the reality of the situation. The filters are well and truly on, censoring out a lot of the detail, tipping the balance subconsciously as you subtly drift away from yourself.
The bubble becomes bigger and bigger, more and more expansive. Anything becomes possible in your own head and yet in truth less gets done in your day to day existence. You only have to answer to the call of the feeling. You become enslaved to its seductive call rather than your own common sense or gut instinct. You forget the pain, suffering, confusion and heartache you felt before and how much you sacrificed the last time this happened.
Are you re-experiencing the same feelings, responses and patterns because you haven’t resolved the core issue behind this cycle?
Do you need to understand and learn from a prior event and integrate changes to stop a repeat circumstance?
Do you believe that you’ve made a change only to find that you’re re-living the same thing again?
CONTACT US TO HELP YOU BREAK THIS CYCLE.
For a short or long time depending on your emotional needs, your world becomes very narrow. Relationships that you held dear yesterday suddenly take a back seat. Tasks that were pressing before now get simply deferred. Responsibilities start to be juggled and crammed in, standards lowered and the adrenaline heightened.
Without noticing you start to justify and accomodate your choices, behaviours and take short cuts. Small deceits begin to creep in because you don’t want to stop and yet you still have to pretend that its business as usual. Occasionally you notice a wobble where your warm, silken and eerily smooth bubble you’ve enveloped yourself in gets rocked by an outside cool and jagged sensation.
HAVE YOU STARTED TO REALISE THAT YOUR LOVE BUBBLE IS TAKING A LOT MORE FROM YOU THAN WHAT YOU WANT TO ADMIT BUT YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO STOP IT?
HELP IS AVAILABLE IF YOU WANT TO LEAVE YOUR BUBBLE.
Are common and along with romantic affections for another person can also occur with family members, friends and work mates to name a few. They can also occur in situations when you attach yourself to outcomes regardless of their organic destiny.
If you feel that this could be you then contact us to make a booking and let us help you disentangle your energy from theirs.