I came to see Kerrie and Zoë a few years ago and I remember how approachable they both were. I felt as if I was in good hands and developed trust in working with them both.
Looking back at the work I’ve done with them, I can really say I’m a better person today for it.
I have a greater understanding of what I used to struggle with. The changes I have made since have helped me see my life in a much more whole and inclusive way.
I used to hide behind a mask or an alter ego. I now understand that I did this to meet the imagined criteria that I felt everyone else needed. Kerrie and Zoë helped me to understand how overextended my ego was and why I was using my energy in this way. I realise now that other people could see straight through my mask and the act of keeping this up was exhausting! People found it hard to relate to me or didn’t trust me and I always felt frustrated at being misunderstood.
My mind was always racing and inventing false realities, I felt anxious and thought I had to perform for everyone else. I carried the burden of supporting my family without realising I was living in my Dad’s shadow. I had no idea at the time how much I was overworking and overcompensating mainly because I did not feel truly worthy in my self.
Kerrie and Zoë worked with me using a step by step approach to help me build a better foundation for myself. I have become so much stronger and can now value who I am even when I am having a bad day. My ego no longer needs me to be perfect or pretend to be someone I am not. I am no longer trying to prove myself to others to my own detriment.
My life has a lot more meaning and my personal as well as my professional relationships have improved. I’ve learned how to be open to receiving feedback rather than being defensive. Getting out of my ego game and finding more balance has me feeling a lot more satisfied and more equiped to deal with stress. I’m grateful that my wife asked me to see these two women.